Give to Receive

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True gifting is always two-way. If we are hungry, and someone gives us food, then the food is the obvious gift that we receive. The opportunity to be generous and compassionate is the hidden gift that we return. This is because, the cycle of Life is like electricity - it always has a return pathway.

The secret of enjoying life, is gifting. Cause another person to have that which we lack, and we will realise that we have it in the first place. What's more, there is only so much joy in life giving to oneself. We can multiply our joy by giving to others. To experience joy, simply find what we can give to the world:

  • In a sustainable manner
  • In a joyful manner
  • In a helpful manner
  • In a manner congruent with our values and principles

Unlike fossil fuels, the best gifts in the world are both renewable and free. Hugs, kisses and a good bedtime story, for instance. A word of consolation, wisdom or advice when it is needed most, for instance. A friendly smile and a greeting, for instance.

Therefore, ask not what others can give to you, but what you can give to others. Ask not what Life can give to you, ask what you can give to Life. Ask not what God can gve to you, but what you can give to God. When you have tasted the power of gifting, everyday is Christmas Day.

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